I’ll let you in on a secret.
I’m not engaged. I don’t even have a extra cool promise ring on my finger.
There is a venue. (You can see that information on the side of the screen.) And there is a countdown (see same information block).
Caterer? Selected. Photographer? Picked and we’re pencilled in. Dress? There is one that has my eye. These will all come up later.
But I suppose I’d like to answer the question about why plan a wedding when you’re not technically engaged. It’s the 21st century and we are very much not part of the 1% who can spend a down payment on a house readily and easily on a day we both want. So we’re planning now.
And I do want/expect Ryan to propose because that will be a story. And I like stories. And Ryan, as far as I know, really likes surprises. And we both like making the other happy… So while things are a wee bit out of order, we’re still doing everything…
Except the garter toss. Screw that.